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Dear Mother-in-Law,

I am new to Facebook and yes, I am a mother in law.

I am in a quandary. I don’t know if I should or should not send an invitation to friends and relatives? Is there a proper etiquette?

I would NOT want my daughters-in-law or my sons to feel like they were -obligated- to add me as a “facebook friend” since were are far more than friends. Would you agree it is better to be requested than to request? I have received requests from friends of all ages but can certainly understand where a daughter-in-law, like mine, would be grief stricken over not offending me! What’s your advise wise mother in law?

From one mother-in-law to another.

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Dear Mother-in-Law,

It may sound funny, but our family is facing a problem that is probably not unique and I am not sure what to do. My mother in law wants to join my husband’s - her son’s - Facebook page. He and I both are trying to figure out what to tell her since we don’t really want her on our Facebook pages. Some of our entries are rather, well, “personal” items that we’d rather not share with her. She sees Facebook as a way to share more family items, such as pictures of her grandchiildren and so forth.

Facebook daughter

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